Forms of Domination

Domination, by its very definition, is taking power or acquiring power. Generally speaking, when referring to its sexual context, domination is the act of exerting control, taking control, or accepting another person’s relinquishing control in a sexual situation. Restated, it is a consensual power exchange between two or more participants.

As you can see, sexual domination covers a broad range of activities and techniques that appeal to an equally broad range of participants.  Let’s explore some forms of sexual domination people practice today. Hopefully, there is something you like on the “menu” below, so to speak.  Or, if there’s not, maybe something, at the very least, peeks your curiosity.  Peeks it enough for you to go out exploring on your own for something more.

Wifey Dearest

One of the most common forms, and simplest, is the “wifey dearest” method of domination.  Basically,  the woman pretty much wears the pants in the family. A wife, constantly telling or ordering her husband to do things, annoys some husbands.  But others, aware that they can’t change their “wifey dearest,” even after several conversations, simply turn the demands and orders into a verbal sex play.

Many find themselves getting turned on and hard cocks when their wives come up behind them, while they’re watching football, and start barking at them to take out the trash. Her aggressiveness, the firmness in her voice, for these guys and perhaps for you, is a total turn on. They feel like bad little boys for not doing it.  Further, the possibility of getting punished for not getting it done excites them.

So instead of getting pissed off by their nagging wives, they spin it around in their heads and make it a sexy domination game. Now, guys love getting bitched at by their wives to take out the trash and actually masturbate when they’re outside dumping the garbage. Not surprisingly, the “wifey dearest” technique can broaden into foreplay and sex itself, with or without your spouse’s knowledge, too.

Slave Boy Domination

Those less practiced in domination techniques often graduate into the Slave Boy category of domination. That is where a man submits to his masterful woman or mistress. At this level of domination, a slave boy does only what he is told.  His service often revolves around extreme tease and restraint.

A likely scenario is when a masterful woman commands her slave boy to clean her feet with his mouth, preparing for their sex play. She instructs him to clean her with his tongue. If he tires, or doesn’t do it to her liking, she may make him start all over again.  At the same time, verbally reminding him how much he wants her.  And how much he wants to screw her brains out.

And yet a third scenario may be where a masterful woman makes her slave boy masturbate while he watches her getting fucked by someone else. She instructs him not to cum, to just bring himself to the edge of orgasm. Then, she may send him home, instructing him to stroke himself ten times each hour and then stop.

In conclusion, from ass licking to taking out the trash, a slave boy is there for one reason.  To serve his masterful woman.

Bondage/Discipline and Sadomasochism

B/D and S/M domination practices and techniques take the more sensual side of domination to the extreme. Strict in its implementation, rules of play, and roles, b/d and s/m are the more harsh and cruel category of the domination arena.  At the same time, they provide gratifying and enjoyable sexual experiences for their many consensual participants.

Bondage and discipline include scenarios of restraint using ropes, chains and other methods of positioning and restraining participants. The discipline side includes corporal punishment, including spanking and whipping.

Sadomasochistic scenarios may include some bondage/discipline techniques and roles, but differ, by definition, with the inclusion of inflicted pain as part of the pleasure. As a result, where b/d may include some elements of pain, s/m’s guiding principle: Pain equals Pleasure requires pain.  Controlled suffocation, sexual torture and extreme verbal humiliation are all elements of the consensual s/m experience.

Whatever the form, the world of sexual domination is one of exploration, trust and adventure.  And an unforgettable sexual experience for its committed participants.

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