What Does it Mean to Be Submissive?

Are you wondering what it means to be submissive? Or wondering whether or not you are submissive?

The man is supposed to be in charge when it comes to sex, right? He asks the woman out, picks her up for the date.  Makes the first move, takes off her clothes and even lies on top of her to fuck. Seemingly, it’s all about the man’s dominant, decisive position when it comes to going out and hooking up.

Well, what if you’re the kind of guy that gets tired of all that dominance? Moreover, what if you are the kind of man that likes it when a woman decides where you two will have dinner on your date?  Or when a dominant woman grabs you by the balls and leads you into the bedroom? What if you are the kind of guy that, every once in a while, would like to not be so much in charge of the sexual aspect of your relationship? What if you would rather be submissive?

At Her Service

The use of the word submissive, in general, applies to taking the less dominant or controlling position in something. Letting someone or something take a higher or stronger position than you.

In sexual terms, being submissive means the same thing.  You position yourself, or she places you, in a lesser position. In the beginning, it may be that you simply allow your wife to be in charge when it comes time to order dinner, pick a movie, or make the vacation plans.

It may then morph into you submitting to her sexual overtures.  Like her fondling you first, or being the more aggressive sexual partner. Or her climbing on top of your dick and riding you.

Or yours may be a completely submissive relationship sexually, where she is your dom and you are at her sexual service.

The Varying Forms Of Sexual Submission

If you are new to the whole concept of sexual submission, you may want to ease in slowly. Have a discussion with your wife about what elements of sexual submission turn her on.  And turn you on.  Maybe she wants to be able to make you do things to her that you don’t already do. Or to take charge of your lovemaking experience. Maybe, she will get so caught up, in the thrill of domination, that you’ll forget you ever had to talk her into it.

Maybe she wants you to beg.  Beg her to touch her cunt or tits.  Beg her to lick her pussy and fuck her cunt.

This takes into account that this is a new thing for you and your wife. But it could also be that you’ve already played with submission.  That during an acting out of a sexual fantasy, you’ve been her submissive, her sex servant. Maybe she has already had you bathe her and lick the soles of her feet clean or stuffed your face into her dripping pussy to lick her clit.

Submission is a key element of the bd/sm community and maybe that’s where your sexual arousal and interests are. She is your mistress, your dom and you are her submissive. You are the man that watches while another man, a better man with a bigger cock, shoves it up her cunt and screws her until her cum and his cream drips from her hole. Then she demands you clean it up, the cream-pie mess of her cunt juice and his jism.  And you do. Maybe your submissive role begins each morning, when you get up, make her coffee, fix her breakfast and wait for her permission to clean up or take a shower.

Set Up Your Wife’s Gang Bang Adventures

Maybe you are the submissive who sets up the playroom for your wife’s gang bang adventures. Where the men that are going to fuck her line up to take their turns at her honeypot and you suck each and every one of their cocks to get them hard. And you may be the submissive that your wife makes watch, as she gets fucked by all those men, and then you get spanked by every one of them, too, because you watched them and you were a naughty submissive to get turned on. You were a naughty submissive to watch them at all.

In conclusion, what it may mean for you to be submissive is adventure, exploration and a new awareness of what sexually pleasures and gratifies both you and your wife. So question, try new things, communicate, fuck, suck, tease and play your way into a submissive world filled with all sorts of hot, sexy, demeaning, empowering, cum controlled circumstances and situations.

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