Domination starts in the mind. The desire to submit does not arise from anywhere other than your own deepest innermost mind and self. There is no required uniform or dress, no requisite set of behaviors, no perfectly executed ritual of exquisite BDSM play that can create either domination or submission from nothing. All these games we play together start in the mind, and ultimately that's where the deepest domination and submission take place.
You don't need a fancy play room with all the toys and gadgets. You don't have to invest in a fucking machine or a set of weighted ball hangers. There's no need for a full latex gimp suit complete with sensory deprivation hood. All those things are fun, yes, but they're extra. They enhance your submission and give you sensations to focus your physical desires upon. Your submission begins when you want to stop being in control.
They say that the first step on the Bodhisattva path is to desire the walk the path. The same can be said for submission and domination games. We start with the desire. Your desire to not be in charge, to no longer have to be in control, and your deep need to be good and obey. And we start with my desire to take that control over you, to command and know that you will do as I say, and my need to train you and guide you. I do very much want to walk this path with you.
You need to stop trying to control yourself, your cock, your entire fucking life. You yearn for someone else to come along and take control over you, even if just for a half hour of blissful domination play. You've had these desires your entire life, and have looked for someone with a complementary set of matching desires to your own. Luckily, you've found me. I'm waiting for you to kneel before me, and offer yourself up to my control.
When most people think of domination, they immediately imagine a variety of physical acts -most often hardcore- that overtly display the exertion of direct control over another person. While it can appear that way superficially, there is much more to being dominated by another. And, in turn, to feeling submissive.
Feelings of submission are generated from and driven by an individual’s own unique and subjective perception of dominance. Can those sensations be elicited only within an in-person context? Not at all…
“But how can anyone possibly dominate you when you’re not there with them, in-person?” you may ask. In fact, the answer to that is actually quite simple. One who is truly submissive by nature, or genuinely desires to experience submitting to another, does not have to be convinced of his or her desire to be dominated.
The man who longs to feel the strength and power of another person does not have to be cajoled into submission. In this case, he deeply desires a strong, dominant Woman, directing, guiding, instructing, and leading him into acts and behaviors.
He WANTS to feel submissive. ASKS for domination. He complies not because he has no choice. Rather, he complies because the ultimate choice to submit IS HIS. This means he ACCOMPLISHES his needs and wants in a virtual sense. His Mistress is the voice in his ear. She winds her way into his submissive psyche, and is able to have him offer himself over to her completely.
For some individuals, despite those deep yearnings to be fully submissive, it is impossible, inconvenient, and/or ill-advised to seek out real-time domination. In addition, he feels he cannot share his submissive side with his partner. Or engage with a Dominatrix or otherwise have his submissive needs fulfilled. At some point in his daily life, domination phone sex can provide a reasonable and realistic resolution. An outlet for the expression of these submissive desires.
When you call for a domination phone sex session with the Mistresses of LDW, you do not have to worry about judgment, censure, rejection or any other negative response. We welcome you with acceptance, support, and understanding of your individual submissive wants and needs.
Whatever you share with your Mistress will be between the two of you (unless you happen to enjoy being exposed to and shared with other Mistresses). In any event, your privacy is key. Furthermore, you can rest assured that you are sharing your domination wishes in a safe and secure environment.
The beauty of a session, with any of our exceptional phone Mistresses, is that you can have a superior domination phone sex experience that meets your own wants, needs, and desires. Whether you long for a sensual touch, hardcore approach or something in the middle, you can settle on one. Or experiment with multiple styles and decide you like to mix it up. On any given day, depending on your particular mood, you decide. The important thing for you to know is that you never lock yourself into just one.
With regard to the format of your session, the sky is the limit. If you simply wish to discuss your fantasies, fetishes, and/or real-time adventures with your Mistress, she will be happy to listen. Want more? She will give you advice, ideas, opinions, and suggestions. Should you desire a strong Woman’s input and perspective, if you enjoy a hot D/s roleplay, your Mistress will be happy to take a scenario you have in mind and develop it in a way that plays to your individual sense of submission.
Likewise, you can give her some initial direction, and she will create a vivid scene of domination and submission for you. Equally important, should you like to participate in real-time play during your call, you can request a cam session. Accordingly, you can show off for your Mistress, prove you’re following directions, and more. There is no right or wrong way to conduct your phone sex domination session. Let your imagination and submissive yearnings drive you to where you want to be.
As far as the fantasies and fetishes you can integrate into your domination session, you have a vast menu from which to choose. Moreover, you can focus on one or have multiple manifestations combined, for a more comprehensive experience. Some of the submissive subject lines you can select to pursue include feminization, humiliation, and bi-curious exploration. Also, assplay, body worship, cock and ball torture, cuckolding, cum-eating, chastity, guided masturbation, orgasm delay or denial, and spanking. The way you choose to mix-and-match any of these is entirely up to you and where your open, negotiable, and hard boundaries reside.
As you can see, whether you’re new to the idea of exploring your submission on a phone sex call, have tried it a couple of times or you’re a well-seasoned vet, you have many options for each of your sessions. Remember, your domination phone sex experience can be anything you want it to be.