Whether you are a seasoned sub or a new to submission, Domination phone sex is a great way to explore when you are not in the service of an in person Domme. Every Dominant, Mistress or Goddess has their own style, preferences and rules for how they choose to dominate. Even if you have served a Dominant in the past, experiencing new levels of submission will only enhance your journey. Having a phone Dominant can definitely turn into a D-s relationship, if you want it to. There are ladies here at LDW that have been speaking to male subs for over 8 years. Through domination phone sex you will discover new kinks, have your boundaries pushed and be accountable.
When you are learning how to ride a bike, you start with training wheels. Sometimes that's exactly what Domination phone sex is for many guys. Newbies need a way to start experiencing the D-s dynamic and phone sex submission is the perfect way to do it. You can share your innermost secrets safely while exploring the dynamic. Determining not only what you enjoy or don't, but also what you like in a Dominant female.
Experienced subs may find themselves without a strong female influence in their lives and seek out a Mistress on the phone. What may start out as a temporary fix can often become a fulfilling exciting sexual adventure over months or years!. Explore new kinks all from the comfort of your own home. Sissies also seek out phone sex submission. They want someone to encourage them to dress up, suck cock and explore all things feminine. They are trained to embrace lingerie, wigs, heels and the sissygasm.
The best Dominant-submission dynamics over the phone, happen over time. I am not saying you won't have an incredible experience on the first call, but what I am saying is, the more you get to know your Mistress, and the more she knows you, the more exciting the experience will become. So, try and stick to a schedule of how often you are able to call. Once or twice a week is a good start.
A great Dominant will often give you tasks to work on outside of your calls. Do the homework, purchase toys requested, over deliver and show your Mistress you want to obey and have a deep desire to please her. If she asks you to be naked and on your knees at the start of every call, then be naked on your knees. Don't be afraid to open up and share your innermost thoughts. Ask questions, this is the time to explore and learn.
For my Sissies in training, having a phone sex Dominant can help guide your journey. Every sissy needs that feminine influence to help you achieve your sissy goals. You will get instruction in every aspect of femininity, from fashion to being fucked. Many feel that they have nobody that they can talk to about all things fem. Your phone Domme can be a gal pal and mentor.
If you are without a Domme and are looking to submit, there is no greater way to explore than utilizing Domination Phone Sex.
When most people think of domination, they immediately imagine a variety of physical acts -most often hardcore- that overtly display the exertion of direct control over another person. While it can appear that way superficially, there is much more to being dominated by another. And, in turn, to feeling submissive.
Feelings of submission are generated from and driven by an individual’s own unique and subjective perception of dominance. Can those sensations be elicited only within an in-person context? Not at all…
“But how can anyone possibly dominate you when you’re not there with them, in-person?” you may ask. In fact, the answer to that is actually quite simple. One who is truly submissive by nature, or genuinely desires to experience submitting to another, does not have to be convinced of his or her desire to be dominated.
The man who longs to feel the strength and power of another person does not have to be cajoled into submission. In this case, he deeply desires a strong, dominant Woman, directing, guiding, instructing, and leading him into acts and behaviors.
He WANTS to feel submissive. ASKS for domination. He complies not because he has no choice. Rather, he complies because the ultimate choice to submit IS HIS. This means he ACCOMPLISHES his needs and wants in a virtual sense. His Mistress is the voice in his ear. She winds her way into his submissive psyche, and is able to have him offer himself over to her completely.
For some individuals, despite those deep yearnings to be fully submissive, it is impossible, inconvenient, and/or ill-advised to seek out real-time domination. In addition, he feels he cannot share his submissive side with his partner. Or engage with a Dominatrix or otherwise have his submissive needs fulfilled. At some point in his daily life, domination phone sex can provide a reasonable and realistic resolution. An outlet for the expression of these submissive desires.
When you call for a domination phone sex session with the Mistresses of LDW, you do not have to worry about judgment, censure, rejection or any other negative response. We welcome you with acceptance, support, and understanding of your individual submissive wants and needs.
Whatever you share with your Mistress will be between the two of you (unless you happen to enjoy being exposed to and shared with other Mistresses). In any event, your privacy is key. Furthermore, you can rest assured that you are sharing your domination wishes in a safe and secure environment.
The beauty of a session, with any of our exceptional phone Mistresses, is that you can have a superior domination phone sex experience that meets your own wants, needs, and desires. Whether you long for a sensual touch, hardcore approach or something in the middle, you can settle on one. Or experiment with multiple styles and decide you like to mix it up. On any given day, depending on your particular mood, you decide. The important thing for you to know is that you never lock yourself into just one.
With regard to the format of your session, the sky is the limit. If you simply wish to discuss your fantasies, fetishes, and/or real-time adventures with your Mistress, she will be happy to listen. Want more? She will give you advice, ideas, opinions, and suggestions. Should you desire a strong Woman’s input and perspective, if you enjoy a hot D/s roleplay, your Mistress will be happy to take a scenario you have in mind and develop it in a way that plays to your individual sense of submission.
Likewise, you can give her some initial direction, and she will create a vivid scene of domination and submission for you. Equally important, should you like to participate in real-time play during your call, you can request a cam session. Accordingly, you can show off for your Mistress, prove you’re following directions, and more. There is no right or wrong way to conduct your phone sex domination session. Let your imagination and submissive yearnings drive you to where you want to be.
As far as the fantasies and fetishes you can integrate into your domination session, you have a vast menu from which to choose. Moreover, you can focus on one or have multiple manifestations combined, for a more comprehensive experience. Some of the submissive subject lines you can select to pursue include feminization, humiliation, and bi-curious exploration. Also, assplay, body worship, cock and ball torture, cuckolding, cum-eating, chastity, guided masturbation, orgasm delay or denial, and spanking. The way you choose to mix-and-match any of these is entirely up to you and where your open, negotiable, and hard boundaries reside.
As you can see, whether you’re new to the idea of exploring your submission on a phone sex call, have tried it a couple of times or you’re a well-seasoned vet, you have many options for each of your sessions. Remember, your domination phone sex experience can be anything you want it to be.