Hello, guys. My name is Sophia, and sensual domination is (and has always been) my style. But make no mistake: I am not a pushover.
I don't scream, shout, order, or threaten the men who come to me in hopes of serving me. Despite that, though, I do know how to take control and do it well.
One of my favorite ways of doing this is through teasing. You often hear it said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but that's not (entirely) true. It's much easier to win his heart by aiming a little lower. That's what makes cock control so effective!
Teasing is what makes men fall deeper and deeper under my spell. I like to work them up so much that they're willing to do more or less anything I want because they're in a state of complete sexual frenzy. When their balls are blue, they tend to lose most of their inhibitions, which makes them far more submissive than they'd ordinarily be. And when they reach that state, who knows what might happen next?
So if you've ever wanted to test your limits and explore the depths of your submission but are afraid to because it seems that many of the boundary-pushing Mistresses out there might be a bit too extreme for your taste, then worry no longer. Ms. Sophia is here, and she's ready to take you as far as you could ever possibly want to go...without ever once raising her voice!
by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com
Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands. Submissive men can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.
For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox. One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.
I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him. Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel. He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.
Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.
And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.
That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.
Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims. Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone. However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship. And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.
But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled. Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.
So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!