So, you are looking for a long-distance Dominatrix, but you aren't sure how that works over the phone? Let me tell you, it works far better than you can imagine! It is said that your brain is your biggest sex organ, and I believe that to be true! The web of control I can weave around your mind is astounding. Together we will make your fantasies come true, according to my wishes. Because, really, you may have the kink, the fetish, but it is entirely up to me how we indulge in our play, isn't it?
As you may know, domination is not all whips, chains, and paddles. Sometimes it is a sweet word for gentle coercion leading you to make the right choice in a given situation. I must admit, I do enjoy a bit of the more feisty types of domination, but I shine at the softer side of domination phone sex. Bending your mind to do my will is such a fun way to play. If you are looking to be led down a path of naughtiness, well, let me lead the way! We won't get lost, and I will strive to bring you back a much more obedient pet.
I enjoy most types of kink and will work with your specific fetish to ensure your compliance with my desires, thus relieving you from all responsibility for the naughty ways your brain works. You will crave servitude and obedience. You will desire nothing more than to please me in whatever way tickles my fancy at the time of our session. In addition, I will hold space in your brain as we take our leave, and your mind wanders to me unexpectedly, wondering how best you can please me during our next session.
Remember the saying "You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar!"? Well, you, my pet, are the fly, and I shall weave my sticky web of sweetness so tightly around your erotic desires that you will no longer be able to masturbate without my sultry voice whispering in your ear, teasing on all your triggers, and causing you to bend to my will, as it should be. Once I become a part of your phone sex domination fantasies, you will wonder how you managed before we met.
by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com
Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands. Submissive men can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.
For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox. One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.
I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him. Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel. He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.
Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.
And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.
That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.
Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims. Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone. However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship. And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.
But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled. Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.
So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!