Harper
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Email me at Harper@enchantrixempire.com
Domination starts in the mind. The desire to submit does not arise from anywhere other than your own deepest innermost mind and self. There is no required uniform or dress, no requisite set of behaviors, no perfectly executed ritual of exquisite BDSM play that can create either domination or submission from nothing. All these games we play together start in the mind, and ultimately that's where the deepest domination and submission take place.
You don't need a fancy play room with all the toys and gadgets. You don't have to invest in a fucking machine or a set of weighted ball hangers. There's no need for a full latex gimp suit complete with sensory deprivation hood. All those things are fun, yes, but they're extra. They enhance your submission and give you sensations to focus your physical desires upon. Your submission begins when you want to stop being in control.
They say that the first step on the Bodhisattva path is to desire the walk the path. The same can be said for submission and domination games. We start with the desire. Your desire to not be in charge, to no longer have to be in control, and your deep need to be good and obey. And we start with my desire to take that control over you, to command and know that you will do as I say, and my need to train you and guide you. I do very much want to walk this path with you.
You need to stop trying to control yourself, your cock, your entire fucking life. You yearn for someone else to come along and take control over you, even if just for a half hour of blissful domination play. You've had these desires your entire life, and have looked for someone with a complementary set of matching desires to your own. Luckily, you've found me. I'm waiting for you to kneel before me, and offer yourself up to my control.
What is Sensual Domination Phone Sex?
by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com
Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands. Submissive men can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.
For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox. One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.
Sensual Domination Phone Sex Builds Trust
I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him. Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel. He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.
Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.
And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.
What Sensual Domination Phone Sex Means
That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.
Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims. Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone. However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship. And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.
But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled. Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.
So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!