What is Sensual Domination Phone Sex?

by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com

 

Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands.  Submissive men  can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.

For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox.  One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.

 

Sensual Domination Phone Sex Builds Trust

 

I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him.  Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel.  He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.

Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.

And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.

 

What Sensual Domination Phone Sex Means

 

That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.

Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims.  Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone.  However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship.  And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.

But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled.  Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.

So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!