Domination is simple for me. You kneel, I tell you what to do, everyone is happy. Of course my style of Domination phone sex might be a bit much for the conservative sub, so I cater to people who are just as masochistic as I am sadistic, and equally insane.
I market swinging from the chandeliers, which means I'm going to advise you drink plenty of water, get plenty of exercise and rest because submitting to me will leave you sore in the morning. Or the evening if you're a day slut. As stated I am a sadist and a societal misfit- Oh I didn't mention that before did I? Yeah, I believe the world needs to have more fun, lighten up, learn to laugh, and before you get there, I'm gonna fuck you so hard you cry. Crying is okay, I get off on your discomfort.
Which is why disclaimers are necessary. Listen, I'm non conventional and I love pushing people to their limits and beyond. I sound sweet, and I refer to myself often as a caring asshole. Meaning I'm going to rake you across the hot coals and simultaneously make sure you're not doing anything that could ruin your actual real life. Because I like keeping pets long term, and if you're a dumb fuck I can't possibly maintain a phone relationship with you in that type of environment. So it's important that you listen to my crazy ass or I will slap you hard.
Unless you like being slapped hard in which case I will deny you any pleasure due to your failure to follow my directions. While I am very much an off my rockers Domme, it is important that you follow my rules. I don't consider myself a strict Femdom with the exception of following my express directives.
I don't mean to be a bitch, but I'm not the type of gal that's going to just smile and do whatever you want me to. I will smile after making you punch yourself in the balls though. Yeah so that's pretty much it, I guess now is your time to think about having adventures with me. Read my blog, it's a riot, and then if you haven't run screaming pick the phone up!
by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com
Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands. Submissive men can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.
For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox. One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.
I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him. Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel. He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.
Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.
And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.
That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.
Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims. Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone. However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship. And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.
But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled. Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.
So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!