Whether you are a seasoned sub or a new to submission, Domination phone sex is a great way to explore when you are not in the service of an in person Domme. Every Dominant, Mistress or Goddess has their own style, preferences and rules for how they choose to dominate. Even if you have served a Dominant in the past, experiencing new levels of submission will only enhance your journey. Having a phone Dominant can definitely turn into a D-s relationship, if you want it to. There are ladies here at LDW that have been speaking to male subs for over 8 years. Through domination phone sex you will discover new kinks, have your boundaries pushed and be accountable.
When you are learning how to ride a bike, you start with training wheels. Sometimes that's exactly what Domination phone sex is for many guys. Newbies need a way to start experiencing the D-s dynamic and phone sex submission is the perfect way to do it. You can share your innermost secrets safely while exploring the dynamic. Determining not only what you enjoy or don't, but also what you like in a Dominant female.
Experienced subs may find themselves without a strong female influence in their lives and seek out a Mistress on the phone. What may start out as a temporary fix can often become a fulfilling exciting sexual adventure over months or years!. Explore new kinks all from the comfort of your own home. Sissies also seek out phone sex submission. They want someone to encourage them to dress up, suck cock and explore all things feminine. They are trained to embrace lingerie, wigs, heels and the sissygasm.
The best Dominant-submission dynamics over the phone, happen over time. I am not saying you won't have an incredible experience on the first call, but what I am saying is, the more you get to know your Mistress, and the more she knows you, the more exciting the experience will become. So, try and stick to a schedule of how often you are able to call. Once or twice a week is a good start.
A great Dominant will often give you tasks to work on outside of your calls. Do the homework, purchase toys requested, over deliver and show your Mistress you want to obey and have a deep desire to please her. If she asks you to be naked and on your knees at the start of every call, then be naked on your knees. Don't be afraid to open up and share your innermost thoughts. Ask questions, this is the time to explore and learn.
For my Sissies in training, having a phone sex Dominant can help guide your journey. Every sissy needs that feminine influence to help you achieve your sissy goals. You will get instruction in every aspect of femininity, from fashion to being fucked. Many feel that they have nobody that they can talk to about all things fem. Your phone Domme can be a gal pal and mentor.
If you are without a Domme and are looking to submit, there is no greater way to explore than utilizing Domination Phone Sex.
by Ms. Sophia of www.dominationphonesex.com
Sensual domination phone sex is a form of domination phone sex that is gentle rather than forceful. It guides rather than demands. Submissive men can submit and remain within their comfort zone. And it allows men to serve Mistresses out of adoration, rather than fear, which is a much better type of service, if you ask me.
For some Mistresses, sensual domination is just one tool in their toolbox. One that they use when they think a particular sub needs a lighter hand. For others, like me, it’s their default method of controlling their subs.
I, personally, like sensual domination phone sex, because, for me, it builds trust between my subs and me far better than anything else. A sub knows that his Mistress has no interest in being overly sadistic, or in degrading him. Or in devising extreme forms of discipline and/or punishment, or otherwise being unnecessarily cruel. He will then naturally be more relaxed and responsive in her presence.
Now, this is not to suggest that there’s anything wrong with Mistresses (and submissives!) who don’t enjoy this approach. It’s just the one that works best for me, personally.
And because of this trust, created by my form of domination, (and the resulting relaxation and responsiveness), my subs are able to fall easily into their roles as submissives. They don’t have to worry about anything, because they know that I’ll take care of any problems that might arise. They know that I won’t punish them for not knowing how to do something, because I would never ask them to do something that I hadn’t already trained them to do. This trust helps them to be the submissives that they desperately want to be.
That’s what sensual domination means. Now, I think we should talk about what it DOESN’T mean, as well.
Sensual domination doesn’t mean that a sub will always get his fantasies fulfilled or that I will cater to his own whims. Sure, I prefer scenes that result in mutual enjoyment, just as much as anyone. However, I do expect to be obeyed, and I expect my authority to be respected. I am the one who, at the end of the day, has control of the relationship. And that means I get both the privileges and responsibilities that come with that control. It is my whims that are catered to, not his.
But, because the kind of trust built with sensual domination phone sex creates such willing and obedient submissives, that means that I have plenty of reasons to reward them for good behavior, if I want. (And I do want!) So, in turn, my subs often do get their desires fulfilled. Because they have pleased me, in return, it pleases me to reward their obedience.
So, if you are the kind of sub who thinks sensual domination phone sex is what you need, I encourage you to really get to know your potential Mistresses. Don’t be afraid to ask what style of domination they prefer. (And, if you find yourself too intimidated to ask, then that is probably an answer in and of itself.) You’ll eventually find the right Mistress whose style matches up perfectly with yours, and you’ll be able to become the submissive you’ve always wanted to be!