Fantasy Domme vs. Real Life Domme

Let’s talk about the advantages of having a fantasy Domme versus a real-life Domme.  Domination comes in many forms. It can be something you engage in as part of your extensive fantasy life.  Or, on the other hand, something that you choose to explore in your real day to day life.  Either way, your needs and wants are valid, and important, both to you and to us. Our clients are split almost evenly between those who are part of the BDSM community, and live their lives as true slaves, with Mistresses who allow them to call and speak with us only with permission.  Then there are those who are controlled only as part of a fantasy.

Whether you choose to have a real life Domme or you are living a completely vanilla life that is only interrupted with periods of domination in fantasy form, where you imagine the strict control, or even participate in it yourself, we are happy to speak with you and guide you down the path you select.

So, when you are looking for someone to dominate you, the same questions come up. Are you seeking someone who is a fantasy dominatrix? She is an excellent storyteller but does not keep slaves in her real life. Or are you looking for a Mistress who is a dominatrix in her real, daily life? Someone with many slaves and those she meets with regularly for control? We have both here at LDW.  We are happy to assist you in choosing the perfect woman to talk with you, though we are curious.  Is there a difference in a phone sex Mistress who is a fantasy Domme and one who is a real-life Domme? Let’s compare.

Fantasy Domme

So, you’ve decided to call in and speak with a Mistress.  What is it you are looking for, exactly?  In many ways, a fantasy Domme is perfect for a session on the phone. Or by texting, whether you are a lifestyle sub or not. Women, who are available in fantasy sessions only, are not coming to the session expecting you to behave like other subs or slaves they own.

They are there to make a fantasy come true.  That can mean using sensual or strict control, but they have the express goal of making the fantasy happen. It doesn’t matter to her if you have a Mistress in real life, if you are trained well or completely untrained.  She is there as part of a fantasy and will not judge you on your lack of experience.

Contrary to the opinion of some, she is also not someone you can slip something past. Even if you consider yourself a lifestyle sub, while she is a fantasy-only Mistress, remember this is still a controlling woman. She is not someone who lets anyone walk all over her. She is intelligent and knows just how to get what she wants.

While she may not be part of the BDSM community in her real, day-to-day life, she is still someone who is in control of her world and those in it.  Or she wouldn’t be a Mistress for us or anyone else. This is something you should keep in mind when choosing to speak to a Fantasy FemDom.  You will not be getting off easy.  On the contrary, she might be even more cruel, as she has no slaves and therefore doesn’t recognize your limitations in following her directions.

Life Style Mistress

Many Mistresses, who have slaves and subs, or have worked in dungeons in larger cities, or even have one of their own, also choose to extend their services to those who are calling on the phone for control. This is something they choose to do to expand the reach of their control.

We all know that a true Mistress is in love with being in control and will make sure you are doing exactly what she asks. On the phone, however, her ability to control slaves in her daily life isn’t something that really comes into play.  That is, as anything more than the great confidence it gives her in her role of FemDom.

She is very likely to expect you to understand she is not willing to bend her rules for you.  No matter what you prefer. You are coming to her for your fantasy session and she is the Mistress.  Thus you will appreciate her time and not expect her to, in turn, appreciate yours. If you are a sub in real life, that may or may not carry any weight with her, depending entirely on the Mistress.

Though she is more likely to be strict than sensual, she is very capable of a sensual, sexy session. Thus, either type of Mistress you choose will be controlling and able to more than accommodate whatever fetish you may have. So, instead of asking which is best for you, look at yourself and decide whom you can better serve.

Give one of our Phone Sex Fantasy Dommes a call, today!