Rules For A Harmonious Guided Masturbation Relationship

I know that many men go about saying how they want to be submissive or to be dominated by a powerful femdom; in fact, many relish in the intense cock tease that is assured to happen in any session with a femdom. I have decided that there should be a set of rules for men that wish to be submissive. All of these rules would be carried out with love and in mutual fun. There is nothing fun about being arrested or caught engaging in a public humiliation foray, since these things could potentially ruin careers and other essential parts of lives, but on average a guided masturbation Mistress should follow some of the following rules:

1. The male submissive should be shaved. His entire pubic region will be shaved and kept smooth and stubble free. This is non-negotiable and should be understood from the beginning of your tease and denial session. This will ensure that he feels every sensation as you take him through long sessions of guided masturbation.

Cock Teasing Rules

2. His cock will need to be teased at least once a day and preferably more guided masturbation sessions would be implemented throughout the day. This does NOT mean he is going to experience an orgasm daily; that is left up to his femdom Mistress. He will be brought to the edge of orgasm at least once per day, either by yourself or by you instructing him to masturbate himself for you till the very edge of orgasm. There are two important parts to this: One, he must learn to tell you when he is ready to orgasm and ask you to please stop or to masturbate and stop himself until he is allowed to orgasm. Orgasm control is a very powerful tool in guided masturbation and tease and denial. This is a power exchange that will only bind you two closer together. He will no longer be allowed to masturbate unsupervised and is often locked into male chastity as such.

3. As another part of guided masturbation, you will teach him to enjoy anal stimulation and penetration. You will start by training him with your fingers, then teaching him how to masturbate himself, while you are penetrating him with a dildo. Over time this could move on into strap on play. The male submissive must learn to at least have a plug in his ass during all guided masturbation sessions.

Humiliation Is An Important Aspect Of Guided Masturbation Rules

4. Nudity is a key factor in all of this. The male submissive should be kept nude at all times, first off so that he knows his place and secondly so that he can be subjected to tease and denial at any given point. The femdom Mistress, however, would remain completely clothed, unless eliciting a cock tease to further the torture of his guided masturbation routine.

5. Humiliation is another key part of most power exchange relationships. The male submissive will experience sexual arousal from the humiliation of giving up all sexual power to his femdom, especially during a guided masturbation session. The male submissive is completely helpless and at the whim of his femdom Mistress, giving her total control over if and when he would be allowed to orgasm.

6. The last key element to tease and denial specifically is that the femdom must orgasm much more frequently than the male submissive. The femdom’s sexual needs are far above those of the male slave. In fact, guided masturbation and orgasm control are the best way to improve a male submissive’s desire to please his femdom more than ever, especially after long periods of male chastity. Remember, sexual pleasure is for the femdom and is only a gift and reward to a good slave who carries about all his demands with grace.

These are the basic rules for how to have a harmonious guided masturbation relationship between a Mistress and a submissive. Of course, adapting these rules and creating your own are important as well. In all ways, the Mistress is the final arbiter of which rules will apply and how strictly those rules should be adhered to by the male submissive. We hope that you find this list of rules useful for your own ongoing kinky relationships!

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