What Is Dominance and Submission?

The words dominance and submission are fairly familiar in our everyday language.  From a team or player “dominating” a sport, for example, to a resident doctor taking a more “submissive” role to a chief resident, while treating a patient.

In the realm of human sexuality and eroticism, dominance and submission are part of the popular fetish subculture of sadomasochism (s/m) and bondage/discipline (b/d). The techniques and styles of incorporating dominance and submission into sexual activity are based solely on the participants’ desires, needs and curiosities. Rules can be steadfast or fluid, contingent upon what those involved in the sexual exploration crave and want.

Dominance—A Definition

The world of dominance and submission, one that may include s/m (sadomasochism) and b/d (bondage/discipline), is principally based upon trust and communication between the participants. It is also based on a deep philosophy of mutual respect, another key point.  This allows you to explore the emotions brought up by the power exchange in a safe, sane and consensual manner.

A broad definition of sexual dominance is the act of exerting ones control, taking of control, or accepting another person’s relinquishing control in a sexual, and sometimes lifestyle, situation. It is a consensual power exchange between two or more participants. Unless those participants consensually agree, it need not involve any brutality (such as corporal punishment) or cruelty (verbal or emotional abuse) at all,

Forms Of Dominance

Overall, the degree of dominance in a particular sexual situation is often defined by its intensity. A lighter, less intense form of dominance may be when one partner allows or relinquishes control of the sexual situation to the other partner. Let’s take a husband and wife, for example.  Usually when it comes to initiating sex or the sex acts performed, the man often takes the lead. In an introductory form of dominance, the man may ask permission to do different things to his partner during their sexual encounter. For example, like asking her if he has permission to lick her pussy, or finger her clit. Or even asking what she wants him to do to her like, a href=”https://www.bodyworship101.com/what_is_as_worship.php” target=”_new”>, rim her asshole or massage her breasts.

Ready to practice? Have a warm, sudsy bath waiting for your wife when she gets home from that long-ass day at work. When she opens the door, get on your knees, kiss her feet and ask her permission to bathe her. In the tub, wash your wife slowly, sensually, like never before. Let the perfect temperature water cascade down her nipples.  Clean the curve of her back with the washcloth, letting it cup her ass and tease her cunt slit.

When she’s dried off and waiting to get it on in the bed, ask her permission to perform the sex acts you usually do without saying a word. Tongue her cunt, cock-pump her pussy,  jiggle her tits. Do it all and do it well. But ask permission and wait for it before you start.

Moderate Dominance and Submission

Like any sexual scale, even the infamous Kinsey one, there are people that fall across the range of sexual experiences. The fetish arena of domination is no different. Once you’ve been introduced to the less intense forms of dominance and are comfortable with the experience, or curious and craving more, new sexy, hot continuing worlds await you.

A next level up, a more moderate approach, might include role-playing or a sexual scene, where permissions and sexual techniques are intensified. More sexual flavors are added like cuckolding or edging.  For example, in the first, a man watches his partner get cock-throttled by her lover.  In the second case, a man stimulates himself over-and-over again without the release of an orgasm.

The Submissive

The person relinquishing control in the aforementioned sexual encounters is considered the submissive. A working definition of a submissive is a person who gives up control in a sexual situation or lifestyle.

The role of the submissive varies with each sexual encounter and with each of the sexual dominants involved. A sub can be a person who sexually performs as instructed.  On the other hand, a sub can be the whipping boy of his masterful woman when he misbehaves.

The consensual submissive role in a dom/sub relationship is as integral a part as the dom role is in making the sexual encounter, or lifestyle of the consensual partners, a success. Communication and trust are  key. Additionally, behind every strong dom is an equally strong sub.  Or so the sub/dom lore declares.

Subs are there to serve their doms, both in physical gratification and mental spirit. From oral cunt cleaning, to kneel boarding, to foot cleaning, to cock-blocking humiliation.  A sub’s power lies in his or her ability to allow, acquiesce and serve.

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