Why I Enjoy Domination Phone Sex

After being a bachelor for years, I recently married.  My wife asked me why I enjoy calling for domination phone sex, so here I am, trying to explain it.  I think there is an illusion that only guys who are losers and can’t get real dates, or can’t sustain a real relationship, call phone sex lines. I’m sure there are those, too.  But I’ve talked to a lot of guys over the years, and in my experience, the guys who call for phone sex are from all walks of life.

They are businessmen who are lonely and traveling on business. There are husbands whose wives don’t (or won’t) understand their particular kink. Guys whose wives know of their kink but don’t feel comfortable sharing it with them, so they encourage them to call a Phone Sex Mistress.

Some are lonely, retired businessmen who spent all of their time making a living and didn’t have a chance to develop a significant romantic relationship. Then there are widowers who miss their wives and just want to call and chat.

My Reasons For Calling a Phone Femdom Are Many

Having said all that, my reason for calling for domination phone sex is a little of all those things rolled into one. I’ve had steady girlfriends for the majority of my adult life.  At least some even enjoyed indulging me in my need for an aggressive woman to dominate me. Others didn’t. Through it all, I continued to call my favorite Phone Sex Femdom. Sometimes because I needed to be dominated, needed her to put me in my submissive subspace like no one else has been able to do.

Other times, I called to tell her about a new girlfriend and maybe ask for advice in the best way to share my kink with her. I called her when I was happy and feeling the need to keep the excitement going.  And I called her when I was feeling blue and needed a little encouragement, sometimes accompanied by a swift kick in the ass. I call my Femdom Mistress because we’ve developed a friendship.

Phone Sex Femdom Boundaries

Don’t get me wrong, I am under no illusion that she’ll ever want to meet me in person, nor do I ever really want to meet her in person. I understand that I am paying her for her time and that she has many, many clients with whom she’s developed a similar relationship. There are definitely boundaries, but it is because of those boundaries that the friendship exists.

You see, I can be my true self with my Cock Control Mistress. I can tell her things I’d be embarrassed to tell anybody else, sometimes even to admit to myself. Because of the D/s dynamic, she knows what makes me tick, probably better than anyone else in the world.

Sometimes, I think she knows me better than I know myself. I don’t have to pretend to be in a good mood.  Neither do I have to listen to her bitch because I forgot to pick up my dirty clothes. I don’t have to see her with her hair in rollers and morning breath.

She is more than just a Mistress I call for domination phone sex. Plain and simple, she’s my friend. Should my wife be jealous? Absolutely not. Do I love my wife more than anyone or anything in this world? Absolutely.

Is there a chance I will leave my wife for my Phone Sex Mistress? Not a snowball’s chance in hell. Do I want to give up my relationship with my Domination Phone Sex Mistress? Not a snowball’s chance in hell.