Forms of Domination

Domination, by its very definition, is the taking of power or acquiring of power. Generally speaking when referring to its sexual context, domination is the act of exerting one’s control, a taking of control, or accepting another person’s giving over of control in a sexual situation. Restated, it is a consensual power exchange between two or more participants.

As one can see, sexual domination covers a broad range of activities and techniques that appeal to an equally broad range of participants. Below are some of the forms of sexual domination that are being practiced and explored today. Hopefully there is something you like on the “menu,” so to speak, or if not at the very least peeks your curiosity to go out exploring on your own for more.

Wifey Dearest

One of the most common forms and most simplest is the “wifey dearest” method of domination, where a woman pretty much wears the pants in the family. Some husbands may get annoyed by a wife that is constantly telling or ordering her husband to do things, but others, aware that they can’t change their “wifey dearest” even after several conversations simply turned the demands and orders into a verbal sex play.

Many found themselves getting turned on and hard cocks, when their wives would come up behind them while they were watching football, and start barking at them to take out the trash. Her aggressiveness, the firmness in her voice, for these guys and perhaps for you, was a total turn on. They felt like bad little boys for not doing it and found themselves getting excited about the possibility of getting punished for not getting it done.

So instead of getting pissed off by their nagging wives, they spun it around in their heads and made it a sexy domination game. Now guys love getting bitched at by their wives to take out the trash and actually masturbate when they’re outside dumping the garbage. The “wifey dearest” technique can broaden into foreplay and sex itself, with our without your spouse’s knowledge, too.

Slave Boy Domination

Those less practiced in domination techniques often graduate into the Slave Boy category of domination, where a man submits to his masterful woman or mistress. At this level of domination, a slave boy does only what he is told and his service often revolves around extreme tease and restraint.

A likely scenario would be when a masterful woman commands her slave boy to clean her feet with his mouth, to get her ready for their sex play. She instructs him to clean her with his tongue. If he tires or doesn’t do it to her liking she may make him start all over again, all the while verbally reminding him how much he wants her and how he wants to screw her brains out.

And yet a third scenario may be where a masterful woman makes her slave boy masturbate while he watches her getting fucked by someone else. He is instructed to not cum, just bring himself to the edge of orgasm. Then she may send him home, instructing him to stroke himself ten times each hour and then stop.

From ass licking to taking out the trash, a slave boy is there for one reason: to serve his masterful woman.

Bondage/Discipline and Sadomasochism

B/D and S/M domination practices and techniques take the more sensual side of domination and take it to the extreme. Strict in its implementation, rules of play and roles, b/d and s/m are sometimes considered the more harsh and cruel category of the domination arena but provide gratifying and enjoyable sexual experiences for their many consensual participants.

Bondage and discipline includes scenarios of restraint using ropes, chains and other methods of positioning and restraining participants. The discipline side includes corporal punishment including spanking and whipping.

Sadomasochistic scenarios may include some bondage/discipline techniques and roles but differ by definition with the inclusion of inflicted pain as part of the pleasure. Where b/d may include some elements of pain, s/m is defined by its guiding principle of pain equals pleasure. Controlled, suffocation, sexual torture and extreme verbal humiliation are all elements of the consensual s/m experience.

Whatever the form, the world of sexual domination is one of exploration, trust and adventure and an unforgettable sexual experience for its committed participants.

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