Domination and Femdom Erotica

Distance domination phone sex can be very intense, and as transformative, as any in-person play.  So the same fundamentals apply. Firstly, play safely with ethical and experienced Mistresses in all of your distance domination sessions.

Distance Domination 101. What you can expect, how not to sound like a dork, as well as other tips on helping you have a great distance domination session.

It started out like almost every other play session I’d ever had with my Femdom Mistress in the past. She began by tying me up. Actually, it’s more accurate to say that she tied me down, since she’s always been partial to tying me spread-eagle to the bed. I love bondage, and that particular position is very comfortable, so I never complain when that’s what she wants to do. She bound me a little more tightly than usual, but that alone wasn’t cause for concern. Sometimes, she gets a hankering to see me bound strictly. Keep reading Coerced Bi Bondage for the tale of a first time anal slut!

I love having my slaves suck cock—even if they don’t admit that they want to. I have several reasons for doing this, and believe me, my slaves suck for me…or else. Why? Why not? They are my slaves. They come to me wanting to be my slaves with all that that entails. I don’t go out and capture them and drag them back to my dungeon and beat them into submission. They ask me for this in some way, so this is what they have to do to earn and keep the right to be my slave. Slaves Sucking Cock is the tale of a Mistress and her harem of eager cock sucking slaves.

After being a bachelor for years, I recently married.  My wife asked me why I enjoy calling for domination phone sex, so here I am, trying to explain it.  Continue reading why I enjoy domination phone sex.

So, you stumbled upon our amazing sites and spent some time looking around at the many gorgeous women. You know who you like, though you aren’t sure what to say.  After all, this is your first time and you aren’t sure what a Mistress is, let alone what she does! Of course, you don’t want to just ask someone.  So, here you are and I’m going to help you. Now, tell me, when you hear the word, “Mistress,” what do you think of? Keep reading What Does A Mistress Do?

Trust is just another word for respect in a relationship. Any relationship. Without trust the bonds formed between two people ultimately fall apart. No matter how hard you try, if trust is not there your relationship will not survive. Continue reading about The Importance of Trust and Communication in a D/s Relationship. 

I still remember my first time with a Femdom Mistress like it was yesterday. I’m going to recount that story for you because I love to share my happiness about being submissive whenever I can. Read this first person account of My First Spanking From A Mistress. 

I have been a professional femdom for some time now, and over the years, I have acquired quite the following of male submissives, some more interesting than others, of course. Continue reading A Phone Sex Slave’s Punishment Fantasy.  

I will never forget the first time I witnessed any type of femdom scenario. Discovering female domination changed my life in ways I can’t quite explain! I had flown out to spend a week with some old college friends that had gotten married and now lived a few states away. We had always been the best of friends and in a way, I had always secretly envied their relationship. Some Mistresses learn about domination in fun ways; read Discovering Female Domination for a hot erotic tale of discovery. 

I know that many men go about saying how they want to be submissive or to be dominated by a powerful femdom; in fact, many relish in the intense cock tease that is assured to happen in any session with a femdom. Read more about Rules For A Harmonious Guided Masturbation Relationship.

Women are superior to men. While this seems like a foregone conclusion to me, apparently there are some men out there who aren’t so sure about whether or not women are truly superior to them. Continue reading Women are Superior to Men.

Stop. No. I don’t want to! Help! Those are all words that, in daily life, are considered cause for alarm. Letting someone know that you don’t like something, that you want it to end or stop, as it were. But they don’t work in BDSM. Because of the nature of many fetishes, the play becomes something where the submissive might say, “No,” but actually mean, “Yes.”  Continue reading what is a safe word.

Have you been wondering what some of the acronyms and terms you’ve been seeing on our sites mean? If so, you’ll want to take a look at our handy BDSM Glossary of Terms. Even if you are familiar with most of the terms you see, it may be a good refresher for you.

We all have limits and boundaries in our lives. They surround us. Laws and rules, things that we set and those other people set for us. These alter every aspect of our lives and guide us down the paths we choose in our lives. In the BDSM community, setting your limits and boundaries is very important. Keep reading about What Are Limits And Boundaries?

If you’ve done any research at all into the world of BDSM, you’ve probably been confronted with a number of terms, from a number of quarters, that you may be familiar with or not. This guide educates both newcomers and experienced people on the meanings of many of these words and the ways they’re used as labels of BDSM participants. Read The Labels Of BDSM to learn about how some people identify themselves.

While this may seem like the most obvious answer in the world Bondage is not as black and white as it may at first seem. There are various shades of gray in even something so seemingly simple. Continue with What Is Bondage to explore the first letter in the BDSM acronym.

You’ve heard the word before, or maybe you haven’t, but what does it mean? Is it something that belongs in a Sci Fi Fetish? Something about zero gravity and spaceships? Or maybe you’re a Trekkie and you know for certain it’s a term used to describe moving faster than the speed of light. Learn all about What Is Subspace here!

“I am not a submissive,” you say. “I just believe in taking care of women. Not to mention, I enjoy doing things that make their lives easier. That doesn’t make me a submissive.  As a matter of fact, that just makes me a nice guy who likes to help out.”  I keep telling my friend this.  Nevertheless, she keeps telling me that I am wrong.  That I am a submissive- a service submissive. Continue reading the service submissive.

I’m the CEO of a Fortune 500 Company. I’m a classic Type A personality.  Always making decisions, always on the go.  A real alpha male. To some, I am a classic male chauvinist.  While this may be true, to others, I am just an all-around asshole. Behind closed doors, however, I am actually submissive. Continue reading the secret submissive.

A strict Mistress will always be in total control. She is a FemDom who may not have a whip in her hand, but you will know by her words and gestures. Unquestionably, she is the one deciding how the session will progress. From the very first moment. Continue reading What is a strict mistress?

What is the difference between a sensual and a strict mistress? This is something that many of you wonder, specifically while trying to figure out how to choose a phone sex mistress. Read more What is a Sensual Mistress?

So, you have finally achieved your dream of having a mistress. But now that you have her, how do you address this Mistress, who controls your every thought and movement? Continue reading Properly Addressing Your Femdom Mistress.

BDSM is a community of people, each having their place with no two places exactly the same. While it can be, and often is, broken down into two basic categories, there are many positions under each which, like any community, are varied and vast. Dominant or Submissive. Those are the basics, but what about Submissive or Slave? What Is The Difference Between A Slave And A Submissive?

I have a Mistress and I love her. She is strict and makes me do things that I would never do on my own. She makes me feel like I’m closer to being the man I want to be. I found her several years ago and I wouldn’t even consider going back to my old lifestyle. Continue reading Why I Love My Femdom Mistress.

Let’s face it.  Women’s bodies were made to be worshiped. They are curvaceous and symmetrical and create a highly erotic silhouette. Their bodies are sexy by nature and they know it.  Not only do they know it, they use it to their advantage. Continue reading What is Femdom Worship?

Iam a Femdom Mistress. You might already know what that means.  However, for those who don’t, and for those who just want to see the definition again, I’ll say it. A Femdom Mistress is a woman who dominates over someone else. Continue reading What is a Femdom Mistress?

Femdom calls are better than meeting a femdom in person for several reasons. Some people will argue about this, but I believe it is true. While having a Mistress standing there in front of you may have its advantages, there are also many other positive things to consider when making a femdom call. Continue reading  Femdom Calls are a Better Choice.

Fantasy is the most important element of most BDSM interactions. After all, most of my experiences as a Mistress, both in person and on femdom calls, have been with fantasies or role playing games. Continue reading Fantasy vs. Lifestyle Femdom.

The world of female domination and male submission is one of those things that the outside world usually cannot understand. From the outside looking in, it’s hard to imagine why a man would relinquish all his power and control to a woman. After all, aren’t men supposed to be the tough, strong ones who take the lead in a relationship? While the women are the ones to be led? Read Female Domination And Male Submission.

As with most aspects of domination, the relationship between a Female Dominant and her sub develops over time. Partnerships in the BDSM community are often rather malleable, as the essence of the D/s relationship is a power exchange. FemDoms are no different in that respect and will, at times, entertain the idea of switching. Continue reading Do Femdoms Switch?

I bet there are many of you out there who hear the words, “strict,” and “sensual,” and aren’t sure what that really mean.  You don’t know if you want a Mistress who controls you in a strict way, or one who is more sensual. Continue reading Can a Mistress be both Strict and Sensual?

This is something I have thought about long and hard. Honestly, all things considered, there is not one single thing that I need sexually, or sometimes even emotionally, that I can’t get from domination phonesex. Continue reading Domination phone sex is everything I need!

I’m not sure why anyone ever believed the adage that women are the weaker sex. Clearly, it was some propaganda facilitated by men to make themselves feel better. Don’t believe it? Well you just haven’t been paying attention then. Men are the weaker sex. To illustrate, read 10 Reasons Men are the Weaker Sex for ten simple and obvious reasons that prove I’m right!

What is Domination Phone Sex? Domination phone sex is the stimulating sexual practice where, via phone, a man sexually submits to the directions, orders or demands of a dominant woman, femdom, mistress or dominatrix, for his own sexual arousal or gratification. Does the sound of that basically get your cock hard and turn you on?

Femdoms are also known as dommes, femdommes, dominas, or dominatrix. In a master/slave fetish relationship, a femdom is referred to as a mistress. Explicitly,  What is a Femdom and what does she do?

Becoming a femdom mistress has sexually enhanced my world. To explain, I get what I deserve from men. My men worship the ground I walk on and know how fortunate they are to have a sexy, hot mistress in their lives. Read more about why I enjoy being a Femdom Mistress.

They say it’s the shy and quiet ones you need to worry about and I guess I’m no exception. You see, to most of the world, I’m a shy and quiet housewife. But to a select few, this shy and quiet housewife by day is a dominant mistress by night!

I love being dominated and humiliated by a gorgeous woman. It wasn’t always that way, though. I used to enjoy taking charge and being in control.  Nevertheless, something happened recently that changed all that. Read all about what happened in Why Do I Enjoy Being Dominated and Humiliated?!

I never really dated much in high school, but all the girls thought I was a nice guy.  Furthermore, most knew they could count on me to help them with whatever they needed. Now I know I’m submissive and it feels so good.

In all relationships, one person or the other is the one who’s taking the lead. It may not always be the same person who does so. Moreover, there may not always be a time in which someone is in control. Nevertheless, the exchange of power exists in some degree in all relationships. Read more about it in Why Do I Submit?

I’ve been working out, starting at 5:30 a.m. every morning, at a local gym, for the better part of four or five years now. Throughout this period, I’ve observed a number of people drifting in and out of attendance. I have always been highly aware of the actions of others.  Taking the time to observe, long enough so that I could pinpoint the different types of personalities, has always given me the upper hand in my relationships.  Importantly, since I often prey upon the more submissive types of men.  Continue reading A Dominant Inspired Workout.

I am a woman who likes control. Furthermore, I make no secret of it. I have a job that gives me the control I need. I dominate my loser husband as well as several lovers at my beck and call. Read more about why I never let him have control.

In the time I’ve been a Mistress, I’ve discovered what makes a Femdom really good at her craft. I’m going to let you in on the secrets of the top erotic Mistresses, just so you’ll know what you’re in for! Continue reading A Femdom’s Rules for Domination.

Collaring, and collars in general, can be a very important part of the D/s dynamic. Different collars have different meanings. Many slaves and submissives, when they hear “collaring,” tend to think only of the ownership aspects. But there are many other times when a collar is to be worn. Read all about it in Ms. Christine’s article, Let’s Talk Collars.

I get tired of the decision making. You know. Where we’re going, what we’re eating, what movie we’re seeing. Consequently, every date seems to be just one  decision after the other. I’m submissive and I need a woman who is ready and willing to take control of me. Please dominate me Mistress!

The man is supposed to be in charge when it comes to sex, right? He asks the woman out, picks her up for the date, makes the first move, etc. Right? What if you’re the kind of guy that gets tired of all that dominance? Moreover, what if you are the kind of man that likes it when a woman takes charge? It means you are likely a submissive. What Does it Mean to Be Submissive?

From outside appearances, you’re a man’s man. That is, you like sports, watch adult movies on your computer when your wife is out with “the girls,” and furthermore, your favorite meal is steak and mash potatoes, something you could easily eat 24/7. Yet, you can’t stop thinking about how you’d like your wife to take charge and demand that you serve her. You’ll want to read How do I convince my wife to dominate me?

You have a “type A” personality. You’re a true alpha male.  A man’s man. It’s only natural that that would carry over into the bedroom, right? As a matter of fact, why don’t you read Does having a dominant personality mean you are dominant in the bedroom? to find out!

Many of these men want relief. They need a real break from the pressures of responsibility, in their professional lives as well as their personal lives. More and more of them are turning to the alternative sub/dom lifestyle. They are looking for sexy, hot women to be in charge, particularly to make every decision when it comes to sex. Indeed, these men seek women to dominate them into submission and more. Read about being a powerful executive by day and a submissive slave by night.

All this talk of being dominated sounds kind of exciting. But, specifically, does it mean she can do whatever she wants to me and I have no say in the matter? What is dominance and submission, anyway?

Domination, by its very definition, is taking power or acquiring power. Generally speaking, when referring to its sexual context, domination is the act of exerting control, taking control, or accepting another person’s relinquishing control, in a sexual situation. Restated, it is a consensual power exchange between two or more participants. Read all about domination and the various forms of domination.

So what is the difference between lifestyle BDSM and fantasy BDSM? Well, simply put, people who are lifestyle BDSM partners live 24/7 in their BDSM roles. People that do more of the fantasy BDSM are not always in their chosen roles. Which one is right for you? It’s your choice. Read What is the Difference between Lifestyle BDSM and Fantasy BDSM? for a more in-depth look at both types of this sexy fetish.

I am a worthless loser. I know it and my Mistress knows it. She is mean and humiliating. I hate her sometimes. But she knows just what to do to make me hurt so good! I have always been a loser. A loser with women, with men, in business, you name it and I have sucked at doing it. I was the one in college that sat on the sofa at the frat parties and played video games while everyone else got drunk and got laid. I have made lots of changes to my appearance in the years since, but somehow I still see the college freshman I was back then. Read more about My Mean Mistress.